How it is okay to suck at something new - a continuation from my previous entry about
getting started on a new hobby/project - here's a quick summary in bullet points:
- This can apply to learning a new skill, hobby, even building relationships with people around you or developing a new perspective.
- If we do not start, we end up not starting or giving up altogether.
- The trick is to take it in small convenient steps.
- The best time to start doing something is always the present
- It's alright to suck at something new, do not be embarrassed whenever you make mistakes: Mistakes are where people learn the most.
- If someone scorns you for making mistakes, especially at the very beginning, know that these are not valuable inputs.
- When learning gets tough, always do a quick check in with yourself: These are two things that help me personally -
- (1) ask myself why am I doing this
- (2) look back at your past works once in a while to see how far you've come and how much you have improved. This keeps me going.
- Always know that it is okay to try something new, do it, and realize you don't love it and move along: The is only way you'd discover what you enjoy - by learning something new for a substantial amount of time. I feel like too many of times people tend to put down a person's attempt too quickly by saying they eventually give up mid way.
- However, the thing is you kinda have to give it (or anything) a go before you truly know whether it's something you love or dislike/hate.
- And if you do not enjoy doing it, you don’t have to go through a endure going through some kind of a noble martyr doing something just to prove to people you can succeed and be consistent - it is your life not theirs.
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